Wondering what turns a girl on? Whether you’re new to the game or just want to add some spice to your current routine, we’re here to help you get your girl revved up and ready to go. It’s actually easier and less mysterious than you might think. Read on for expert advice on the best turn-ons for girls.
Make her feel you find her attractive. You know that warm, fuzzy feeling you get when you find out that someone thinks you’re good looking? That’s what you want to create for her. The fact that you think she’s lovely to look at is a significant turn-on. Here’s how to communicate it without going overboard:
- Say “Hey, pretty lady” or “Hello, beautiful” when you greet her. It’s simple and short, but direct (and potentially patronising – use with caution).
- Pay her a compliment. Lower the volume and tone of your voice slightly, and say something like “You look amazing today” or “I love your eyes.”
Be the best version of yourself. Be the person who’s honestly kind, a person who respects her and thinks she’s more beautiful than the most picturesque sunset. Be the person who works hard and makes it easier for her to work hard, by helping to shoulder her burdens. This will all mostly keep you from turning her off!
Be confident, even if you don’t act like it. Some girls like a person who is nervous and even klutzy around her, but don’t overdo it. If the girl is shy, be confident; if the girl is confident, feel free to act somewhat shy. Keep your shoulders straight and your chin high, and don’t be afraid to look her in the eyes. You’re communicating through your body language that you’re strong, brave, and worthy of her attention.
Clean yourself up. Shower, put on deodorant, brush your teeth and wear clean clothes. If you’re feeling up to it, you can also do your hair and put on a light spray of cologne or perfume. Knowing that you’re at your physical best will help you act confident and in-charge.
